Strong enough to ask for help

Stacey, Emergency Housing Assistance Client

Stacey is a busy, single mom of seven, with children ranging from toddlers to teens. A survivor of domestic violence, she wants the best for herself and her children. When she faced financial hardships and learned about JFS, Stacey received the support she needed to overcome them. 

Raising her children alone meant that Stacey’s work hours were limited, which naturally affected her ability to find a job. The family was facing homelessness. Locating a home that they could afford and that was large enough was daunting. Finding room at shelters, which aren’t necessarily equipped to accommodate multiple children, was difficult. Stacey even faced the heartbreaking possibility of separating her family and temporarily splitting her children between family members. 

Stacey worked with her JFS case worker, Melissa, and received financial assistance for rent, utilities, and household essentials. “She’s amazing,” shared Stacey. “I was embarrassed about talking about some of the stuff I’ve been through, but Melissa wasn’t judgmental at all. She went out of her way. I don’t know what we would have done because my mental health started going down a little bit, too, thinking that if I can’t provide for my kids, maybe there’s a better situation for them.” 

Recently, Stacey started a seasonal job at Amazon, and she’s excited about the possibility of being hired as a full-time employee. 

“Having that [JFS] support system is everything,” said Stacey. “And it teaches my kids that if you’re working and thriving and trying to succeed at something, it’s OK to reach out for help. Now, I’m about to get mentally back on track and focus on what I need to and then establish my goals.” 

When asked what she would like readers to know, Stacey shared, “I just really appreciate you guys. Overall, I think it’s [your help] made a huge difference and impact on us.”